Membership

Invest in Your Standards.

Build confidence, recognize red flags, and navigate dating with clarity. Start free or unlock deeper insights with Standards First Plus.

One Man. Three Readings. Your Standards Start Here.

Standards First Free

$0a month

One Man. Three Readings. Your Standards Start Here. Three AI readings a month about one man, a private journal, and the basics that keep your standard.

  • 3 AI readings a month, about one man
  • One man's profile — notes, stage, and reading history
  • A private dating journal
  • The Daily Standard — daily confidence emails
  • Basic guides, first-date prep, and your standards checklist

No card. Nothing to cancel.

Standards First Plus

Premium membership
$19.99a month

More Clarity. Stronger Boundaries. Higher Standards. Unlimited men's profiles, fifty readings a month, screenshot analysis, and the premium guides.

  • 50 AI readings a month across all your profiles
  • Unlimited men's profiles
  • Screenshot conversation analysis
  • Advanced journal with pattern tracking
  • Premium relationship guides
  • Personalized response suggestions
  • Everything in Free

Cancel any time. Your journal stays yours.

Free and Plus, side by side

Both allowances reset on the first of each month.

What’s includedFreePlus
Monthly price$0$19.99
Men's profiles1 active manUnlimited
AI readings per month350
Typed conversation analysisIncludedIncluded
Screenshot analysisNot includedIncluded
Basic dating journalIncludedIncluded
Advanced journal trackingNot includedIncluded
Basic dating guidesIncludedIncluded
Premium relationship guidesNot includedIncluded
Personalized dating insightsBasicAdvanced
Daily Standard emailsIncludedIncluded
First-date preparationIncludedIncluded
Personal standards checklistIncludedIncluded

Both allowances reset on the first of each month.

AI readings are informational. They can't know someone's intentions — read them as a second opinion, not a verdict.

Your conversations and journal entries stay private to your account.

Cancelling is self-serve from your membership page and takes effect at the end of the paid period. Read the terms and privacy policy.

Standards First

A reflective reading tool built on seven published books about dating, boundaries and confidence. It isn't therapy, legal advice, or a safety assessment — if you ever feel unsafe, contact local support services.

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