What you're agreeing to, in plain words.

Standards First helps you read a dating situation and decide what to do next. Bring a conversation, say what you were tempted to do, and get a structured reading written from published books about standards, boundaries, and attraction.

It's a reflection tool. It isn't therapy, coaching you're paying for, legal advice, medical advice, or a judgment about any person.

Every reading is generated by an AI model applying principles from those books. It can be wrong, incomplete, or tone-deaf to your actual situation, because it only knows what you typed.

Bring your own judgment. Nothing here is a prediction of what someone will do, and nothing here is a guarantee about how a choice will turn out.

You need to be 18 or older. If you're using it for a situation involving someone else, that's your call to make — the app only ever reads what you give it.

Only paste conversations you have a right to share. Text messages are written by two people; sharing someone's messages with an app is something to think about before you do it.

You keep whatever you write here. Saving it gives the app permission to store it for you and to send it to the AI model to produce your readings — nothing more. Your journal is never published or sold.

Don't use the app to impersonate someone, to harass or monitor another person, to scrape or resell the readings, or to upload anyone's private information with the intent to expose it.

Don't try to break, overload, or reverse-engineer the service. Accounts that do can be closed.

Keep your sign-in details to yourself. You're responsible for what happens under your account.

You can delete your account and everything saved to it at any time from the account menu.

Standards First Free costs nothing and needs no card: three AI readings a month, the journal, the education library, and your personal standards checklist.

Standards First Plus is $19.99 a month, billed automatically through Stripe until you cancel. Plus gives you unlimited men's profiles, fifty readings a month, screenshot analysis, advanced journal tracking and the premium guides. Both allowances reset on the first of each month, Central time.

Cancelling is self-serve from your membership page. It stops the next charge, and the account returns to Free when the paid period ends. Your journal entries and saved readings are never deleted for lapsing to Free.

Card details are entered on Stripe's checkout and are never seen or stored by this app. Refunds are considered case by case.

The readings draw on published books and their ideas, summarized in the app's own words. Referencing a book isn't an endorsement of its author or of every claim in it, and the books themselves remain the work of their authors and publishers.

Readings are limited to a set number per day, so the service stays usable and affordable for everyone; the current limit is shown in the app and may change.

The app is provided as it is. It may change, go down, or lose a feature, and readings already saved may not be available forever — export anything you want to keep.

These terms may be updated as the app changes; the date at the top of this page will change with them. Continuing to use the app means the current version applies.

The app's operator isn't responsible for decisions you make after reading an interpretation, for someone else's behavior, or for the loss of content you didn't export.

Where the law doesn't allow a limit like this, it applies only as far as it legally can.

This app is not an emergency service and can't help in a crisis. If someone is threatening you or you don't feel safe, contact local emergency services or The Hotline (thehotline.org), which is free, confidential, and open 24/7 in the US.